Salam Auntie and Uncles. I am officially AQIL AL - ISLAM.

Salam Guys...

By request,by mistake,by a big wake up call,

I am sharing this parenting story of mine.

My Aqil,already change his 2nd name to Al - Islam

Kerana Allah jugak menggerakkan hati aku ini.

Kerana Allah jugak urusan ini dipermudahkan..

segala - galanya bermula bila ade dlm satu insiden Aqil sangat tak mahu pergi sekolah seolah - olah nampak sesuatu.

refer pada ramai ustaz,all of them being shocked bila diberitahu nama penuh aqil pada masa tersebut.

ramai yang menganjurkan menukarkan namanya pada yg lebih baik..

sebab dan penyebab tersebut jugak Aqil bukan nampak benda tapi more to malas nak gi school.

action being taken after full measurement.

after few argumentation dengan orang tua.

after fully references with some others people who has been face it or experienced with it.

after numerously seek guidance from Allah...

Finally I proceed it.

With help of best friend of mine..

Which  I mention them who sharing and guide me also in this journey:

Madiha - my bestfriend since IKM year 2000.she give me a ride to Pejabat Agama Islam Gombak Timur to submit formal letter to request recommendation and support letter form Kadi to change Aqil name.

Nana ibu Damia - blogger friend who became one my good friend since 2009. she gave full support and figure what to do and so son.sebab ade kawan amrul yg facing the same problem jugak.

Islinda : my cousin who previously work at JPN and guide me what should do,what form need to be fill and who should be seen.

Nur Nhazzla Abdul Wahab : blogger, a teacher/ustazah also at SK petaling jaya.She's the one who sharing story regarding one of her student also change the whole name.and also she show me a reference what exactly 2nd name of aqil previously mean.

Ustaz Love and Ustaz Ziniddin - who suggest either Nurruddin or Al Islam for Aqil

Cik Chibi, Kak Yani, Kak Ju..who helping me a lot in this whole process.mostly on emotionally support.

What could go wrong?how it could go wrong?!

- Semuanya keje dan kehendak Allah.

- Honestly, no one should be blame.

- In fact,parenting is not something we can learn from the book.

- reminder to others,double and triple check your kids name.refer more deeply to Arabic book which include emphasize of Al, the sign ' and so on.refer to the expert.

- if after a years of kid age, you guys need to do exactly like I'm doing.

Procedure:

1. buat surat rasmi memohon surat sokongan penukaran nama anak di pejabat agama daerah masing - masing.
2. sesudah dapat surat sokongan, pergi ke JPN dan amik borang yang patut.
3. setelah kesemua borang telah diisi dan dokumen yg berkaitan telah dibuat salinan, jumpa mana2 pesuruhjaya sumpah untuk pengesahan
4. hantar semula permohonan ke JPN
5. update selalu di jpn paling tidak pun sebulan 2 kali.tempoh menunggu kebiasaannya dlm 5 -6 bulan.bergantung dengan beban kerja JPN tersebut.

itu sahaja perkongsian dari aku buat kalian...

semoga buat ikhtibar..

buat kawan - kawan lain..

memang aku tak bercerita kerana tak mahu kecoh segala...

bila dah selesai..

barulah bercerita...

alhamdulillah....

*noted: no surat beranak tak bertukar.cuma no sirinya berbeza.

*semoga nama ini memberi kesejahteraan berkekalan dalam hidup aqil

Aqil - yang berakal/cerdas

Al - Islam - Yang Sejahtera

*noted:sebaik2nya tukar sebelum dewasa.tak effect mykad and mykid.

*all the best jugak my dearest fren who had this problem also..

jazakallah...

for the record, hammam mean toilet...
for ensure guys.please Google..
for the 1st time I feel so cruel and mean to my own son.
more hurt than my surgery removal abscess under my armpit or  Cesarean.
semoga jugak Allah mengampuni dosaku yg satu ini..