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Jun 28, 2012

Salam Auntie and Uncles. I am officially AQIL AL - ISLAM.

Salam Guys...
By request,by mistake,by a big wake up call,
I am sharing this parenting story of mine.
My Aqil,already change his 2nd name to Al - Islam


Kerana Allah jugak menggerakkan hati aku ini.
Kerana Allah jugak urusan ini dipermudahkan..

segala - galanya bermula bila ade dlm satu insiden Aqil sangat tak mahu pergi sekolah seolah - olah nampak sesuatu.
refer pada ramai ustaz,all of them being shocked bila diberitahu nama penuh aqil pada masa tersebut.
ramai yang menganjurkan menukarkan namanya pada yg lebih baik..
sebab dan penyebab tersebut jugak Aqil bukan nampak benda tapi more to malas nak gi school.

action being taken after full measurement.
after few argumentation dengan orang tua.
after fully references with some others people who has been face it or experienced with it.
after numerously seek guidance from Allah...
Finally I proceed it.
With help of best friend of mine..
Which  I mention them who sharing and guide me also in this journey:

Madiha - my bestfriend since IKM year 2000.she give me a ride to Pejabat Agama Islam Gombak Timur to submit formal letter to request recommendation and support letter form Kadi to change Aqil name.

Nana ibu Damia - blogger friend who became one my good friend since 2009. she gave full support and figure what to do and so son.sebab ade kawan amrul yg facing the same problem jugak.

Islinda : my cousin who previously work at JPN and guide me what should do,what form need to be fill and who should be seen.

Nur Nhazzla Abdul Wahab : blogger, a teacher/ustazah also at SK petaling jaya.She's the one who sharing story regarding one of her student also change the whole name.and also she show me a reference what exactly 2nd name of aqil previously mean.

Ustaz Love and Ustaz Ziniddin - who suggest either Nurruddin or Al Islam for Aqil

Cik Chibi, Kak Yani, Kak Ju..who helping me a lot in this whole process.mostly on emotionally support.


What could go wrong?how it could go wrong?!
- Semuanya keje dan kehendak Allah.
- Honestly, no one should be blame.
- In fact,parenting is not something we can learn from the book.
- reminder to others,double and triple check your kids name.refer more deeply to Arabic book which include emphasize of Al, the sign ' and so on.refer to the expert.
- if after a years of kid age, you guys need to do exactly like I'm doing.

Procedure:
  1. buat surat rasmi memohon surat sokongan penukaran nama anak di pejabat agama daerah masing - masing.
  2. sesudah dapat surat sokongan, pergi ke JPN dan amik borang yang patut.
  3. setelah kesemua borang telah diisi dan dokumen yg berkaitan telah dibuat salinan, jumpa mana2 pesuruhjaya sumpah untuk pengesahan
  4. hantar semula permohonan ke JPN
  5. update selalu di jpn paling tidak pun sebulan 2 kali.tempoh menunggu kebiasaannya dlm 5 -6 bulan.bergantung dengan beban kerja JPN tersebut.
itu sahaja perkongsian dari aku buat kalian...
semoga buat ikhtibar..
buat kawan - kawan lain..
memang aku tak bercerita kerana tak mahu kecoh segala...
bila dah selesai..
barulah bercerita...
alhamdulillah....

*noted: no surat beranak tak bertukar.cuma no sirinya berbeza.
*semoga nama ini memberi kesejahteraan berkekalan dalam hidup aqil
Aqil - yang berakal/cerdas
Al - Islam - Yang Sejahtera

*noted:sebaik2nya tukar sebelum dewasa.tak effect mykad and mykid.
*all the best jugak my dearest fren who had this problem also..
jazakallah...

for the record, hammam mean toilet...
for ensure guys.please Google..
for the 1st time I feel so cruel and mean to my own son.
more hurt than my surgery removal abscess under my armpit or  Cesarean.
semoga jugak Allah mengampuni dosaku yg satu ini..

  











19 comments:

AyuArjuna BiGoshh said...

hmmm...banyak info berguna..kadang2 kita juga boleh tak tahu benda2 seperti ini ..thanks for sharing

yatie chomeyl said...

thanks for sharing this ayu. mog abermanfaat utk ibubapa yg lain. betul tu ken acheck dgn teliti nama anak sbb skrg ni nama bunyi sedap tp maksudnya nanti kang ke mana2 hala. peringatan for me jugak utk cari nama my 2nd baby molek2

MRS. K said...

Alhamdulillah.. semua dah selesai...

atty's said...

alhamdulillah syukur..semuanya dipermudahkan..
semoga aqil terus menjadi anak yg soleh dan berjaya.amin

Ms.Lilies said...

Xpe nok..manusia xlari dr buat silap...kurg2 pengalaman ko ni dpt buka hati org lain...dpt bantu org lain melalui info ko share ni...aku sndiri br tau kena dptkan surat sokongan dr pjbt agama dulu..thanx 4 sharing nok

luvmommies said...

Alhamdulillah..Aqil Al-Islam, sedap nama & maksud dia.. :)

Nana said...

sebak aku baca...
aku hanya tolong mana yang mampu..
alamdulillah.

Adlin✿Kyra♥Kyreen Moms✿ said...

tgk google semalam hammam mean 'kemahuan yg keras" rupanya ceritanya cam ni .. syukur Alhamdulillah semua dah selesai ..
sesungguhnya yg buruk dr kita yg baik dari yg maha esa ..

Qaseh Suhaida said...

Semoga Aqil Al Islam menjadi anak yang cerdik, bijak dan soleh

cik Jue Aka Ibu Farisyah said...

o....baru paham kenapa ayu tukat...alhamdulilah semuanya berjalan dengan lancar..syukur pada ALLAh sebab gerakkan hati ayu unutk buat ini semua.demi anak tersang..pangajaran yang berguna buat kita semua...

moga ALLAH Memberkati ayu dan keluarga....

Has said...

mesti rs sgt lega dah kan ayu..

CheNamNam said...

Thanks for sharing this dear..!!

Alhamdulillah syukur kerna kesedaran hadir cepat dengan izin Allah. Sebagai ibu penyesalan akan kesilapan tue pastilah menghantui tapi sekurangnya segalanya sudah pun berakhir.

Semoga hidup Aqil akan sentiasa dirahmati Allah SWT selalu.

♥MAMASYAZA♥ said...

baru hari ni akak tahu boleh tukar nama anak camtu. tq atas info. si hamiz ni pun macam tak berapa suka nak pegi tadika. first time pegi, balik tadika terus bagitau dia tak nak pegi dah, coz ramai sgt pelajar kat tadika tu. ermm alasan yg tak munasabah

RealNS said...

Alhamdulillah , semoga nama baru ni lebih memberi makna pada anak akk :)

abg saya dlu sepatutnya ada nama helmi , tapi sbb slalu sgt menangis , nama helmi tu dibuang

|| NaFiRaa || said...

OOOoo.. ok sekarang dah jelas dah..
moga jadik panduan buat ibu2 yang alami masalah yang sama..

cantek nama baru aqil..:)

mama_umar_maryam said...

alhamdulillah3..

mama irfan said...

thanks sharing... skang ni kita kena banyak berhati dan mengkaji makna sesuatu perkataan...

Imaan09 said...

alhamdulillah, kalau itu yang terbaik kan..

Nad @ MamaZN said...

alhamdulillah...

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